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"He needs to be big enough so you can both take cover under his coat when it rains. Small enough for you to wrap your arms almost around. Strong enough to restrain you from leaving too easily. Gentle enough to know when to leave you alone. And man enough to know when to give you his hand..." .....Someone thought of these beautiful notions. She also said that's the mark of the right one. You're the only one who can confer him that title...ermm...